Alana Nicol on Warm Introductions and Referral Prospecting
About Alana Nicol
Alana Nicol is the Owner/President of Gerry Weinberg & Associates / Sandler Training, a Sandler franchise serving the Detroit metro area. In this conversation, she shares practical approaches to introductions, referral prospecting, and consistent sales activity.
Episode Notes
Key moments from this episode
Alana Nicol, Owner/President of Gerry Weinberg & Associates / Sandler Training in the Detroit metro area, joins Tailwind to explain how sellers can turn their existing network into a more deliberate source of new opportunities. She describes her 20/60 rule: some people naturally make introductions, some hesitate, and a movable middle is willing to help when asked. Alana recommends asking for an introduction rather than a referral, defining the ideal client and decision-maker profile, and researching specific names before approaching a connection. The conversation covers LinkedIn second-degree searches, AI-assisted preparation, reciprocal introductions, and tracking each request through completion. She closes with a practical habit: set a weekly introduction-ask goal, stick to it, and track it.
Takeaways
- Treat introductions as a proactive prospecting activity. Focus on the people willing to help when asked rather than relying only on spontaneous referrals.
- Ask for a low-pressure introduction and specify the decision-maker, company characteristics, or speaking opportunity that fits your ideal client profile.
- Research specific names through LinkedIn second-degree connections and prioritize prospects with multiple shared connections; a connection does not necessarily mean a close relationship.
- Offer reciprocal help and draft an introduction the connector can edit. Have the connector confirm the other person is open to it so the outreach is genuinely warm.
- Set a weekly goal for introduction asks and track requests, introductions, and follow-through. Agree on a reasonable cadence before returning to the same connector.
Key Moments
- 3:02
Why sellers hesitate to ask for introductions
Alana separates mindset barriers from uncertainty about how to ask, then explains why sellers need activity goals for introduction requests.
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The 20/60 rule and the movable middle
Alana explains why proactive asks should focus on the part of a network willing to help, and why introduction feels less demanding than referral.
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Make the ask specific to your ideal client
The conversation moves from generic requests to clear buyer personas, company characteristics, and introductions to speaking opportunities.
Read transcript at this moment - 14:34
Research names and offer reciprocal introductions
Alana describes researching LinkedIn connections, preparing specific names, comparing networks, and prioritizing prospects with multiple shared connections.
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Use technology for preparation and track follow-through
AI-assisted preparation and LinkedIn searches help build target lists, while a tracking process keeps agreed introductions from falling through the cracks.
Read transcript at this moment - 26:23
Draft the warm introduction and set a weekly goal
Alana recommends editable introduction templates and a warm-up by the connector, then closes with a weekly introduction-ask goal that sellers can control.
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Transcript
0:02 We have another episode of Tailwind.
0:04 Today we're joined by Elana Nickel. She
0:07 is the owner of a Sandler franchise in
0:09 the Detroit metro area. They've been
0:12 around for 33 years, and we were just
0:13 talking about how that's one of the
0:14 longest standing Sandler franchises,
0:16 which is really cool. Um, anything else
0:18 I missed uh about the uh the breakdown
0:21 there?
0:22 >> Yeah, no, it sounds about right. Been
0:24 around a while, love the Sandler
0:25 business, and happy to be here today.
0:27 >> Yeah, really appreciate you joining. Um,
0:29 so we were talking a little bit more
0:30 about uh before the episode started
0:32 about referrals and the power of your
0:34 network. Um, you mind expanding just a
0:36 little bit like on the value and why
0:38 people should stick around and listen
0:40 and learn how to really leverage their
0:41 network some more?
0:42 >> Yeah, absolutely. Being able to leverage
0:45 our network to set us up with other
0:47 people that people we already know know.
0:50 So, it's a much warmer introduction is
0:52 one of the best ways that we can to grow
0:55 our sales. It should be one of our
0:57 highest conversion rates if we look at
0:59 our opportunities. Anything that comes
1:01 from a referral or introduction, and I'm
1:03 going to use those words synonymously,
1:06 um really is what I've seen being in
1:09 this business, the most effective way to
1:12 grow our sales, but also the most
1:14 underutilized.
1:15 Most sales people are not proactive
1:17 enough about asking for those
1:19 introductions and referrals when they
1:21 should be because they should be one of
1:23 their highest conversion rates.
1:24 >> Yeah. if do you have a a general rule of
1:27 thumb on how much you should balance,
1:29 you know, doing referral work versus
1:30 doing other lead generation work?
1:33 >> Yeah, I would say there's no hard and
1:35 fast rule. It's really different based
1:36 on each industry. Um, but if if it's me,
1:41 I certainly would rather talk to warm
1:43 introductions than cold introductions
1:45 just by the nature of the numbers. It
1:47 takes a whole lot more effort and energy
1:49 on the cold outreach than it does on the
1:51 warm reach. So for me, majority of my
1:54 time, although I have an established
1:56 business, established territory, an
1:58 established client base, majority of my
2:00 prospecting efforts are focused on as
2:03 using the people that I know to get to
2:04 people that I don't know because the
2:06 warmer it is, the more successful it
2:08 tends to be. So it just depends uh on
2:11 each person, what their what their sales
2:13 goals are, how much brand new, net new,
2:15 I'm going to call attain business they
2:16 have to go out and get, how much
2:18 business they need to go and get within
2:20 existing accounts. But either one,
2:22 whether it's brand new or growing with
2:24 an existing, using the relationships
2:26 that we have, tends to be the most
2:28 beneficial source for getting new
2:30 business.
2:30 >> Yeah, I'm sure changes for individuals
2:33 and by industry on how successful or how
2:35 much more easy it is to convert a warm
2:37 one. But there's no way that anyone's
2:40 getting better conversion rates with
2:41 cold outreach than versus
2:43 >> No. Especially today, there's just so
2:45 much noise out there, it's really hard
2:46 to break through it.
2:48 >> Yeah. So, what do you think is one of
2:49 the bigger reasons that people don't do
2:52 like the networking aspect of it? I
2:53 mean, it's right there. Everyone wants
2:55 the warm intro. It's probably more
2:56 comfortable. It's more successful. And
2:58 yet, here we are in a world where people
3:00 aren't doing it.
3:02 >> Yeah. You would think it would be a lot
3:04 more comfortable. But what we find is
3:05 there's two components to where that
3:08 hesitancy comes from. The first one is
3:10 what I'm going to say is conceptual and
3:13 it lives up here in our head. All this
3:14 head trash that we have that we don't
3:16 want to sound needy. We don't want to
3:18 sound desperate. We don't want to sound
3:20 pushy. We might tell ourselves,"I
3:22 haven't earned the right to ask for that
3:24 yet." Uh, and that kind of sits with us.
3:27 And then that keeps us from the
3:29 technical side, which is the how to ask.
3:32 So, it's those two roadblocks that tend
3:34 to get in the way. The conceptual around
3:36 it's not polite, I don't want to ask, I
3:38 haven't earned the right, etc. to I
3:40 don't know how to ask, I'm not sure
3:42 exactly how to say it. So, I would say
3:44 every single person that I talk to has
3:46 some combination of those two that that
3:49 tend to get in our way uh for asking.
3:52 And I'll tell you that most salespeople
3:54 don't have a goal for how many they want
3:56 to ask for on a daily weekly basis. And
3:59 if you're familiar with Sandler, we're a
4:01 big proponent of activity metrics
4:03 because activities are the only things
4:04 that we can control. I cannot control
4:06 results. But most salespeople prior to
4:09 Sandler anyway, they have um I'm going
4:12 to call them lagging indicator goals.
4:14 They have their sales target. They have
4:15 their sales quota. They have whatever
4:17 that looks like, but they don't have
4:19 those activity matrix for how many new
4:22 conversations do they have? How many
4:23 introductions and referrals do they need
4:25 to ask for? And without a goal, our
4:28 focus tends not to be on it. And we tend
4:30 to be a bit more reactive.
4:32 >> Yeah. So, what would be like a practical
4:35 first step? you're talking to me and I'm
4:37 saying, "Hey, I don't do any networking
4:39 right now. What should I do by the end
4:41 of this week to fix this huge mistake
4:43 that I'm making?"
4:44 >> Yeah. So, we can get into the tactics in
4:46 a little bit. I want to give you a rule
4:47 of thumb that I think is a really good
4:50 baseline for when it comes to
4:52 expectations and what to think about as
4:54 we start leveraging our network. Um, so
4:56 we call it the 2060 rule when it comes
4:59 to introductions and referrals. So 20%
5:02 of your network will give you a referral
5:05 or introduction without being asked. So
5:08 I got to imagine that most sales people
5:10 listening today, they're thinking,
5:11 "Yeah, I've gotten a couple referrals.
5:12 I've gotten a couple introductions." So
5:14 I want you to think about how many have
5:16 you gotten in 2026? We're halfway
5:18 through the year. And then of those that
5:21 you've gotten, how many did you actually
5:24 ask for? Because most salespeople, it's
5:27 coming from that 20%. the 20% who are
5:30 natural givers, natural connectors. They
5:32 get a lot of energy out of telling other
5:34 people like you need to talk to them.
5:35 They've they've helped me tremendously.
5:38 So those come in organically from that
5:40 20%.
5:41 >> On the flip side, there's another 20%.
5:44 That no matter what you do, you can ask
5:47 until the cows come home. They are not
5:49 going to give them to you because they
5:51 just have hesitation about it. They
5:53 don't want to do it. They don't feel
5:54 comfortable making that introduction. So
5:56 that 20% probably never going to ask.
5:59 But what I'm really looking to change is
6:02 the movable middle. That 60% in the
6:05 middle are those of us that are in our
6:08 network that will be happy to give an
6:10 introduction or a referral if they're
6:14 asked. So as we think about the
6:15 strategy, I want us to really be
6:17 thinking about I'm targeting this 60%
6:20 because that's the part I control by
6:22 just asking, right?
6:25 >> Yeah. for that uh that 20% that's just
6:28 probably never going to give one. I
6:29 mean, is that one where like if you if
6:31 you reach out to somebody and you're
6:33 taking a guess, you think maybe they
6:34 would, maybe you're wrong, that's no no
6:36 harm, right? Uh if you get that kind of
6:39 initial no and it seems like a pretty
6:41 like flat like no, not interested. Would
6:44 you just say like hey, just drop that.
6:45 Don't worry about that person. It's not
6:47 about you. It's about their preferences.
6:49 Move on to the other people. They're
6:50 part of that.
6:51 >> Yeah, absolutely. because you know if we
6:54 just take the math alone right another
6:56 80% are willing to give it to you. Um so
6:59 part of it around how we ask I I'm
7:01 purposely using the word introduction on
7:04 purpose because introduction is a lot
7:06 softer. So some of those 20% might move
7:09 to that 60% just with the change of
7:13 introduction over referral. I don't know
7:15 about you, but I can think of an a a a
7:18 thing in my past, right, where I gave a
7:20 referral to somebody that maybe I was
7:22 good friends with, but I'd never
7:24 actually used their services and then I
7:27 made that referral
7:29 >> and then they messed it up and now I
7:31 kind of have egg on my face and look bad
7:33 and then obviously that impacts my my
7:36 hesitancy to do it again. So referral is
7:40 is kind of strong because there's a I'm
7:43 vouching for you aspect where
7:46 introduction is a lot softer, right? I'm
7:49 making an introduction. Thought the two
7:51 of you should talk. That's about it. May
7:54 or may not be somebody that ultimately
7:57 uh is going to be impactful to you, but
7:59 I thought of introduction would be
8:01 warranted. Right? That's a much lower
8:04 bar ask. So, we train our clients to
8:06 focus talking about introductions versus
8:09 referrals because there's not as much
8:12 >> meat and like pressure associated with
8:15 referral that there is with
8:16 introduction. So, I we always use the
8:18 term would you be willing to make an
8:20 introduction versus would you be willing
8:22 to give me a referral.
8:24 >> Yeah, that distinction makes a lot of
8:26 sense. I I get like the using them
8:27 synonymously just a normal conversation
8:29 but then when you're being deliberate in
8:31 the process it makes sense in that. So
8:33 you are you would say though that like
8:35 that movable 60 there might be like a
8:38 gray line where like oh because I asked
8:40 for an introduction they that person
8:41 actually is part of the movable 60 would
8:43 you still define that movable 60 if
8:45 somebody's like um you haven't like
8:48 they've like giving you indicators that
8:49 maybe you haven't quite earned the trust
8:51 yet like like hey if somebody says like
8:53 you know what we just started using your
8:54 product or started using your services
8:57 let me just try it out for three months
8:58 before I start introducing you to people
9:00 you know would that be somebody who
9:02 you'd say like okay that person's is
9:03 definitely a movable 60 or would you say
9:05 that's somebody you're trying to get out
9:06 of that um non-referred?
9:08 >> I think that's somebody that's in the
9:09 60. They didn't say no, they didn't shut
9:11 you down, but it's been my experience
9:13 that even from the time we make a sale,
9:16 so if I signed you up to tomorrow as a
9:20 new client, right, we say as part of our
9:22 onboarding, you know, you can expect
9:25 that we're going to um meet and exceed
9:28 your expectations. when we do, I'm going
9:31 to come back to you and we're going to
9:34 talk about who else you might know that
9:36 we could help in a similar fashion.
9:39 >> So, I'm teeing up the introduction ask
9:42 when I first make the sale. And that's
9:45 partly as a trap for myself to make sure
9:47 that I do it. It's also priming them to
9:51 go, okay, you know, I'm not surprised
9:52 when you come back and ask. So, it's not
9:54 too early to start asking for that
9:57 introduction at the time you make a sale
9:59 or even when you get a no from somebody
10:02 else. It's okay to say appreciate that
10:05 we might not be a fit for you. I don't
10:08 suppose you know anyone else in your
10:10 sphere of influence who you'd be willing
10:12 to make an introduction to that maybe
10:13 could potentially be a better fit. I
10:15 think a lot of sales people miss the
10:17 opportunity to ask for the intro. Even
10:20 if they get a no in an outbound reach
10:22 or, you know, don't make a sale, it it
10:25 we can still ask. The worst they can say
10:27 is no. Um, but you'd be surprised how
10:30 many times they'll come up with some
10:32 ideas of people that we could be talking
10:34 to.
10:34 >> Yeah, it makes sense because, you know,
10:35 no is not a bad word. Like just because
10:37 something's not a fit doesn't mean that
10:39 there's some issue here. It's, you know,
10:41 we kind of look at some of our
10:42 situations with our competitors and we
10:44 kind of go, hey, there's a definitive
10:46 ICP for them and a definitive ICP for us
10:49 and if I call somebody for them, it's
10:51 like it's not a big deal. Like they're
10:52 just not the right fit for us. So move
10:54 on to the next one and then maybe they
10:56 do know somebody that is a little bit
10:58 closer to ISP. So
10:59 >> yeah, I'm really glad you said ICP and
11:01 ideal client profile because I think
11:03 >> yeah,
11:04 >> we need to understand that in our intro
11:06 ask, right? I want to be specific in who
11:10 I'm looking for. So, if I were to be
11:12 looking for an introduction, I'm looking
11:14 for an introduction to senior business
11:17 executives. Sometimes they're the
11:18 president. Sometimes they might be a
11:20 vice president. Sometimes they might be
11:22 a CEO of a company that has a sales team
11:25 between five and 25 people with a few
11:28 managers. Uh that is growth mindset
11:32 oriented. They might be doing well
11:34 already, but they know that there's more
11:36 out there.
11:37 >> Who like that might you know? So, it's
11:39 really important that we give a little
11:41 bit of clarifier to introductions
11:44 because sometimes what I see is when
11:46 salespeople start this, they're like,
11:47 "Hey, can you make some introductions?"
11:49 And they get names and they get
11:50 introductions, but they're not
11:51 necessarily to the right people. I even
11:54 have a newer seller on my team and his
11:56 intro ask over the last year has really
11:59 transitioned because when he first got
12:00 in the business, he was just trying to
12:02 talk to people about I got this new gig,
12:04 right? And he wasn't really as dialed
12:06 into what we do now, whereas now his
12:08 intro ask is a whole lot different. He's
12:10 much more targeted and who he's asking
12:12 for. So the quality of those
12:14 introductions come up. So, as we start
12:17 asking for introductions, if we're not
12:18 having the right conversations, you
12:21 might want to look back at how are you
12:23 teeing up your ICP or your ideal
12:25 introduction so that they know who to
12:28 introduce you to.
12:30 >> Yeah. What are what are some of those
12:32 components of the quality ask that kind
12:34 of make it more impactful that you
12:36 should like, all right, maybe not
12:37 everyone says exactly the same words,
12:39 but these are the things that have to be
12:41 involved in that process. Yeah, I think
12:43 the titles that that the key dis level
12:46 of decision maker is really important to
12:48 talk about because it like for me I only
12:51 meet with senior business executives.
12:52 Don't set me up with a sales manager or
12:54 a salesperson because that's not my best
12:57 first call, right? So in my world I want
12:59 to talk to the executive suite. So I
13:02 want to be very clear that I'm looking
13:03 for that level of person. So that level
13:06 of person or persona is important. if
13:09 you target certain industries or I had a
13:12 client where they're in the roofing
13:14 business, right? So, anybody with a flat
13:16 roof could be a candidate for them.
13:19 Anybody with, you know, trucks on the
13:21 road that has branding. It all depends
13:23 on who you're calling into, but I I want
13:25 you to take pieces of your ideal client
13:27 profile and sprinkle that in to the
13:30 types of people that you're looking for.
13:32 You could also like another example of
13:35 an ask is so the newer seller I have on
13:38 my team, he's now asking for
13:39 introductions to do speaking
13:41 engagements. Instead of looking for
13:43 introductions to individuals, I'm
13:45 looking for a place an audience where
13:47 someone could benefit from some sales
13:50 content, help, you know, help improve
13:52 the quality of their meetings, give
13:53 fresh new content. you know, what
13:55 industry associations or groups are you
13:58 a part of that might benefit from having
14:00 somebody from the outside come in and
14:02 talk about sales? So, we can do it all
14:05 depends on what you're looking for,
14:06 right? You can ask for individual
14:08 conversations. You can also ask for like
14:10 what he's looking to do is to book more
14:12 speaking opportunities. So, he's asking
14:14 specifically as his intro ask for that
14:16 instead of keep people. Now,
14:18 >> that's cool. I would have never thought
14:19 that that being part of the referral ask
14:21 like process, but makes perfect sense.
14:23 And why wouldn't you leverage that
14:25 opportunity?
14:26 >> Um,
14:27 >> so I've heard some people say like you
14:29 should have like a list of like five
14:30 people going in to when you're making
14:32 that ask. Are you in line with that or
14:34 do you have like a different approach to
14:36 >> Yeah, studies would actually say those
14:38 numbers could be as high as seven or 10.
14:40 I was having this dialogue with another
14:42 Sandler colleague who's like if I give
14:45 at least seven names of somebody they're
14:48 bound to know probably one because if
14:50 I'm using a tool like LinkedIn which we
14:53 can talk about more tactics in a minute
14:54 right the beautiful thing about LinkedIn
14:56 is I don't need to ask you Austin who do
14:58 you know I can go search your
15:00 connections for some of those ideal
15:02 client profile personas industries
15:05 locations whatever it might be so that I
15:08 can say specifically hey Austin I
15:10 noticed on LinkedIn that you happen to
15:12 know these folks. Curious how well do
15:14 you know them
15:16 >> and would you be willing who would you
15:17 be willing to make an introduction too?
15:20 Right? That's a very more specific
15:22 tailored ask because I have the ability
15:24 to go in and see who you know because a
15:26 lot of times when we ask like oh do you
15:28 know it's oh I don't know I can't think
15:30 of anyone at this time right? Um so
15:33 being very specific about doing your
15:35 research and figuring out who they know
15:37 and offering to reciprocate. Uh, another
15:40 rule of thumb with referrals and
15:41 introductions is to get more, give more.
15:44 So, I might say, "Austin, why don't we
15:46 do this? You know, we haven't talked in
15:47 a while. I'd love to have lunch, grab a
15:50 coffee, and maybe compare notes to see
15:52 if we can help each other with some
15:53 introductions before our meeting. Go
15:55 through my LinkedIn profile. Go through
15:57 my connection, see who on that list
15:59 might be somebody that were is worthy of
16:02 an introduction, and I'll do the same."
16:04 And then you have a targeted meeting
16:06 with prep work and you're going in being
16:08 able to talk about real people instead
16:10 of theoretical.
16:11 >> Yeah. Um
16:14 I'm one of the offenders of like
16:15 LinkedIn my network has kind of outgrown
16:18 the people that I truly know and it's
16:19 just you know maybe a little too easy to
16:21 accept invites and then
16:23 >> you know full disclosure I might send a
16:25 connection request if I'm prospecting
16:27 somebody for sure.
16:28 >> So yeah um you know with that you're
16:30 saying like one out of seven might hit.
16:33 What would you say like, okay, let's say
16:34 you get the seven, they're all great,
16:36 but that person happens to say, would
16:38 love to introduce you. I actually don't
16:39 really know any of them. Would you say
16:41 like load up another seven or be like,
16:43 hey, like would love to kind of talk a
16:45 little bit more about our ICP and then
16:46 maybe it'd be easier if you like were
16:48 targeted. Like what's the balance after
16:50 maybe like swinging a miss on seven of
16:52 them?
16:53 >> Yeah. I mean, I think either one of
16:55 those can work. The first is know that
16:57 going in. Like, and I might even say
16:59 that as part of my ask. You know, I
17:00 found seven to 10 people on your
17:01 LinkedIn. You probably don't even know
17:04 at least half of them, but thought I'd
17:06 put them in, right? I I think you go
17:08 into that ask and expect that they don't
17:11 know it. Um, I will tell you when
17:13 searching LinkedIn, I always prioritize
17:16 where I have more than one shared
17:18 connection, right? So, if I have three,
17:20 four, five, six ways to get to that
17:23 person, it's a whole lot easier target
17:25 to ask for. So, if I'm searching my
17:28 connections for their connections, so
17:30 I'm going to run a search on LinkedIn
17:32 for second connections because I don't
17:34 need to know who I already know on
17:35 LinkedIn, right? I need to know who I
17:37 don't know. So, I might put in some
17:38 filters. And you can do this in free
17:40 LinkedIn. You can do this in Navigator
17:42 and like save the search and have it a
17:44 little bit more robust if you're on
17:45 Navigator. Um, but I'm going to go in
17:47 run a search on my connections. And I
17:50 want all second connections of you,
17:52 Austin, that are senior business
17:54 executives, have sales. I might put in
17:56 some other demographics that I'm looking
17:59 for and then up is going to come a list
18:02 of all these names and it'll tell me if
18:04 you know them. It will also tell me if
18:06 other people in my connections know
18:08 them. So the ones with the most shared
18:12 connections I typically prioritize
18:14 because I have more than one one way to
18:17 get to that person, right? So if you
18:18 don't know him, someone else I'm
18:20 connected to might. Um but certainly I
18:23 would do that as part of the ask. I
18:25 mean, it's you might not know any of
18:26 these. Some of them, like I'm the same
18:28 way. I have enough LinkedIn connections
18:30 that even when I see it in my newsfeed
18:32 and some you see some activity on
18:34 people, you're like, I don't even know
18:35 who that is, right? Um, and there's two
18:38 schools of thought, right? Certainly
18:39 leveraging your connections on LinkedIn
18:42 is a lot easier when you know the
18:44 people. Um, so if we kind of go to a
18:46 tactic standpoint for a minute, you got
18:49 to make sure you're connected to all
18:51 your clients on LinkedIn. And that's a
18:53 best practice that takes some
18:55 maintenance and remembering. I'm guilty
18:57 of it. I might have a new team I'm
18:58 working with that has 25 people. I'm
19:00 probably connected to the decision
19:02 makers, but unless I remember to go in
19:04 and connect to all the individual sales
19:06 people, I'm going to forget. But it's
19:08 really hard for me to now farm my
19:11 existing or old clients for either
19:14 recapture opportunities. Maybe they went
19:16 somewhere else and I need to be talking
19:17 to them about their new place of
19:19 employment or to go in and say who else
19:21 do they know searching their connection.
19:23 So we have to make sure we stay
19:25 connected with all of our clients,
19:28 customers, strategic partners because
19:30 that's the quality part of your network
19:32 that's really going to help you as you
19:34 try to do some of this. I I onboarding a
19:38 team this week and I totally had not put
19:40 it on my to-do list to connect with them
19:41 on LinkedIn. I'm g have to do that right
19:42 after we get off this podcast and go
19:45 make sure I'm following that best
19:46 practice because it's silly to not do
19:47 that. For sure.
19:48 >> Yeah. But it's it's happens to me too. I
19:50 I find clients I'm like, "How are we not
19:52 connected?" And then I send a connection
19:53 request. Looks like we're not connected
19:54 on LinkedIn. Let's fix that. Like I need
19:57 to fix that. Right. Um if you've got any
19:59 type of admin support, sometimes they
20:01 can go in and help you with that so that
20:03 it takes it off of your list. Sometimes
20:05 that's something that if you say here's
20:07 the rosters, here's are all the clients,
20:09 go make sure I, you know, send the
20:10 connection requests on my behalf. Helps
20:12 take it off of our list, too, if we have
20:14 resources to help with that.
20:16 >> Um, but cool.
20:17 >> Yeah. So when you're doing it sounds
20:20 like there's kind of two ways that
20:21 you're approaching like your networking
20:23 initial step which is I'm either going
20:24 to put together a bunch of people I'm
20:26 interested in and then reverse engineer
20:28 who I want to go talk to
20:29 >> and then but it sounds like there's also
20:31 the but also like set up a meeting with
20:33 somebody and do from that person the
20:35 other direction as well and people
20:37 should be doing both of those approaches
20:38 to
20:38 >> absolutely and with the help of
20:40 technology uh you can try to run some of
20:43 those um client lists if you have a CRM
20:46 you export the client list from the CRM
20:48 or whatever type of database you're
20:50 housing all of your customers. And then
20:53 Claude has helped me a lot as I'm trying
20:55 to use Navigator more effectively
20:57 because I am not as savvy as I should
21:00 be. But Claude can help clean up the
21:02 lists, tell you what you need to set up
21:04 in Navigator to be able to run some of
21:06 those searches, have your different save
21:09 list, because that's half the battle is
21:12 just doing the prep work to know who to
21:14 reach out to. The outreach part takes
21:16 the least amount of time, but it's the
21:19 who am I reaching out to and then kind
21:22 of tracking where you are in the
21:24 process. I was meeting with another
21:25 Sandler colleague who has like this
21:27 massive spreadsheet where he's got his
21:30 seven to 10 people. He's tracking where
21:32 he is in the process, who said yes, did
21:35 the intro request go out, what happened?
21:38 Because that's the part of the followup
21:40 and follow through that, you know, we
21:42 get busy falls off. I'll be like, "Oh, I
21:43 asked Austin, but did everything
21:45 anything ever happen to that? Did he
21:46 send it back?
21:48 >> What happened?" Right? So, it's it's
21:50 building those target lists and then
21:52 making sure we're staying on top of the
21:55 follow-through required because we know
21:57 getting connected with people takes more
21:59 attempts than it did before. So, we have
22:01 to track where we are in that prog
22:02 process.
22:03 >> Yeah. And it it seems like um and maybe
22:06 it's counterintuitive, but it seems like
22:07 if somebody's willing to give me an
22:09 introduction one time, that's probably
22:11 somebody that I should continue to not
22:12 like every single day or ask, but
22:15 >> you know, it's not like, okay, you
22:17 anyone you talk to has five
22:18 introductions in the whole time they
22:20 ever know you and you got to be sparing
22:21 with them. It's like, no, somebody's
22:23 active,
22:24 >> that's the person that you want to bring
22:25 into that, you know, 20% and really
22:27 focus on staying in touch with and, you
22:29 know, continuing to provide value back
22:31 to them.
22:31 >> Yeah. you might find that once it works,
22:33 they become that 20%, they just keep
22:35 sending them to you. Um, but we also
22:37 want to be careful that we don't over go
22:41 to the well too often. So, you want as
22:43 many people as you can and then I think
22:45 that reciprocation is really important
22:47 and goes a long way that if we get one
22:49 from somebody, then how can I help you?
22:51 What are the types of people that might
22:53 be beneficial for you to be introduced
22:55 to? because that law of rep reciprocity
22:58 really does play in when it comes to
23:00 intros and referrals and sometimes
23:02 that's the best way to get them flowing
23:04 is by starting it by giving as well.
23:07 >> Yeah. Um I just totally blanked out what
23:10 I was going to ask. Well, that's
23:13 um yeah. Yeah. I I think that uh one of
23:16 the things that I was doing uh earlier
23:17 this week was going through and I had I
23:20 use chatbt plaid. I don't know
23:22 interchangeable. I'm not here to argue
23:23 about which one's better. Y
23:25 >> I have dropped in like all of our
23:27 existing client list and then had it
23:28 define its ICP based on what it thinks
23:31 and then had it go through and like look
23:33 at a bunch of leaders. And it was really
23:35 nice cuz it could go and research each
23:37 business and say how close is that one
23:38 to it? And obviously I'm not going to
23:40 just, you know, not think and just do
23:43 whatever it says. But it saved me a
23:44 bunch of Googling to go, okay, is this,
23:46 you know, does it match this criteria,
23:48 this criteria, this criteria? and and
23:51 then I obviously read the summary,
23:52 verify on my own when it said here's the
23:54 top five or I should start doing top
23:56 seven. Um, but it was a real time saver
23:59 and really nice to be able to have just
24:01 like a little grunt work done by AI
24:03 instead of myself.
24:04 >> 100%. AI is way better at analyzing
24:07 customers than I am. And you can learn
24:09 so much. I've done a lot of recent like
24:11 client studies using cloud like putting
24:14 in some client lists, asking for trends,
24:16 what does it see industries. That's it's
24:19 great for market research. And then from
24:21 there, you can say like who are the key
24:23 personas? And then that's what you put
24:25 into your LinkedIn navigator search of
24:28 searches that you're looking for or
24:29 that's how you search your existing
24:31 criteria is pulling what you learned
24:34 from the AI research into the filters so
24:38 that then it starts to pull that up so
24:40 that it helps you narrow that target
24:42 down.
24:43 >> Yeah. It's not half bad at telling you
24:45 how to fill out the filters on LinkedIn,
24:46 the navigator.
24:47 >> No, it's great. It's, you know, it's
24:49 we're in the era of work smarter, not
24:50 harder, and AI is way smarter than me,
24:52 so I'm all for it.
24:54 >> Yeah. Um, there's the question I was
24:56 going to ask, and I totally had blanked
24:57 on. Um, so when we were talking about
24:58 not going back to the well too often,
25:00 >> I mean, is that something where it's
25:01 like once a quarter, but don't do it
25:04 less than or don't do more often than
25:06 that and then maybe even like once every
25:08 six months. Like what general rule of
25:10 thumb, you know?
25:11 >> Yeah. I mean, I think it depends on how
25:13 the conversation goes. But certainly, I
25:15 don't know that I would go back to
25:16 somebody more than once a quarter just
25:19 because I don't want to be a pest,
25:20 right? I mean, even if it goes well and
25:22 if that person has another 10 people
25:25 that they know, you know, maybe we talk
25:27 to them and, you know, I don't want to
25:28 bombard you. You know, what do you want
25:30 to, you know, sounds like there's some
25:32 more people that that you could know?
25:34 How often should we reconnect on this?
25:36 you know, maybe get their buy in too
25:38 because they might surprise us and be
25:39 like, I'll send all 10 right now. Okay,
25:41 cool. Right? Like, let's talk to them
25:43 about it depending on what the unique
25:46 situation is. But certainly, I I think
25:48 more than once a quarter seems a bit
25:52 pushy, unless they say, "Yeah, no, I'm
25:54 game. Let's go. Keep it up." Like,
25:56 right. It just depends.
25:57 >> Rule rule of thumb, right? Yeah.
25:59 Obviously, there's going to be different
26:00 situations.
26:01 >> Um,
26:01 >> yeah.
26:02 >> Yeah. I guess the last question I have
26:04 for you, I do want to respect your time.
26:05 we had the upfront contract on it. Um,
26:08 do you find that uh, you know, keeping
26:10 it kind of informal, you know, doing the
26:12 reciprocity is an effective thing or
26:14 should like if I'm a sales leader be
26:16 thinking about how do we put a formal
26:18 referral program into place to maybe
26:19 incentivize those introductions?
26:23 >> I think both can work. Um, I've seen
26:26 both work. I think if I'm an individual
26:28 seller and I'm not asking today, I want
26:30 to start asking. So, I got to build my
26:32 target list. Come up with a template
26:34 because, you know, and you know, Chad or
26:36 Claude can help you with that
26:38 conversational low pressure type of ask.
26:41 Um, so that you've got the template
26:43 written. always want to ask for to offer
26:46 to draft the intro for the person you're
26:48 asking for because sometimes that's the
26:50 biggest hurdle is Austin, I'm going to
26:52 ask you if you can make an introduction
26:54 to Bob and then I I go ahead and drafted
26:57 it for feel free to edit it any way
27:00 you'd like because sometimes the
27:02 hesitation isn't just the asking, it's
27:04 so they don't know what to say. So if we
27:06 can draft those templates and use some
27:08 of those templates in our asking, always
27:10 have them edit it. feel free to edit it
27:12 for your language, but it takes some of
27:14 the resistance level of, oh, what am I
27:17 going to say to I already wrote it for
27:18 you? Just send it and CC me, right? Um,
27:21 is a great way. And I don't think we
27:23 covered this. But that part's really
27:25 important, right? I don't want just a
27:26 name and a number because then it's no
27:28 different than a sales call. Like when I
27:30 say like a cold call, right? I want it I
27:33 want it warmed up. So Austin, I want you
27:35 to reach out to Bob, ask if you'd be
27:37 willing to take the introduction and
27:39 then send it. Right? That's a really
27:41 important step. Sometimes I see, oh
27:42 well, I got a referral. I got this name
27:44 and the phone number. Well, do they know
27:46 you're calling? Did they warm it up for
27:47 you? No. Okay. Well, now all I'm doing
27:49 is making a cold call. I just have an
27:50 actual phone number that I know is going
27:52 to get through. Whereas if it was info
27:54 or something else, it didn't. So, it's
27:56 always really important that that intro
27:59 source does that warm-up for you so that
28:02 you're not making a cold call. Uh, and
28:04 also from somebody who's given I I've
28:06 heard people call it like a double
28:08 opt-in where you make sure both parties
28:09 are interested.
28:10 >> Yes.
28:11 >> As an individual, I'm like that makes me
28:12 feel so much more comfortable reaching
28:14 out to the person like, are you willing
28:15 to have that combo? And then if they're
28:17 not, no big deal. Um, but then it just
28:19 make me feel better sending that email
28:20 and like
28:21 >> absolutely.
28:22 >> I'm all about that.
28:23 >> Yeah.
28:24 >> All right. So, want to respect your
28:25 time. Uh, one last thing is if
28:28 somebody's listening in, what's the uh
28:30 what's the big takeaway that they should
28:32 make sure to apply to their own sales
28:33 practice if they're if they're gonna
28:35 only remember one thing from this, what
28:36 would what would it be?
28:38 >> Have a goal for introduction asks every
28:40 single week and stick to it and track
28:42 it. Even if it's two or one, it might be
28:45 one or two more than you're doing now.
28:47 So, the more consistent you can be in
28:50 that outreach every single week, the
28:52 more you're going to see results.
28:53 >> Yeah. Force yourself to do the behavior.
28:55 everything else will start to follow.
28:57 Yeah.
28:57 >> Yep. Absolutely.
28:59 >> Well, I really appreciate it. Great. I
29:01 learned a bunch. I got some to-do list
29:03 items from what we just said that I got
29:05 to go run off and do before I forget.
29:07 Um, yeah. Thank you for taking the time.
29:09 >> Excellent. Thanks for having me.
Questions answered in this episode
What is Alana Nicol’s 20/60 rule for introductions?
Alana describes a rule of thumb in which 20% of a network makes introductions naturally, 20% is hesitant, and the middle 60% is willing to help when asked. Her practical advice is to focus on the middle through clear, proactive requests rather than treating those percentages as guaranteed conversion rates.
How can sellers make an introduction ask more specific?
Explain the ideal client profile and the decision-maker you want to meet, then research a short list of names your contact may know. Alana recommends using introduction rather than referral to reduce pressure and offering to draft language the connector can edit.
How does LinkedIn help with warm introductions?
Search second-degree connections using relevant personas, industries, and locations. Prioritize prospects with multiple shared connections, check how well the connector actually knows each person, and stay connected with clients and strategic partners.
How can sellers make introduction prospecting consistent?
Set a weekly goal for introduction asks, track each request through the introduction and follow-through, and offer useful introductions in return. Alana suggests agreeing on a reconnect cadence with each person so repeated asks remain welcome.
